It is not normally easy to disentangle yourself from a chain that one is tied with. The situation even becomes more complicated when you are not aware that you are under some external influence that is beyond your control. In order to break a spell therefore, you need to be a little bit cautious. Some wisdom is required to deal with such a situation.
Relationships have a soft spot for spells. Control of affairs is always totally taken by one of the spouse. A third party is at times involved in terms of consultations. Such a lover makes you extremely dependent on them such that without them you fell totally void. They end up being your key decision makers on serious life issues. This is a spell in its best sense.
Being in a position to dominate the thoughts and actions of someone is an overwhelming experience. Some people can do everything to gain this control. This is normally not realized by the misused party, making them more helpless and vulnerable. People who try to bring the back to reality are labeled haters. It is normally too late when they realize that they were actually duped.
A great scholar called Socrates used to tell the Athenian youths that you should know thyself. This is very important if at all you would like to strengthen your weaker areas and reinforce your strongholds. Accept your weak areas in order for a chance to strengthen them to be sought. Never tarry until its too late to make a change. Consider views from friends and foes alike. Instead of rubbishing them, put them in a weighing.
Sometimes we feel that we know ourselves so much that we do not give a damn about what anybody says. However, its quite regrettable that we fail to understand that it is the observer who can see where the problem is. The wisest move therefore, is for us to listen more than we speak. Once we have listened, we should put what we have heard to deep contemplation before giving a decisive response.
For you to break a particular spell, always be willing to hear others out. Do not be the only one speaking. Instead, you better be the only one listening. There are cases where one has to persevere being ashamed for the sake of sobriety. Avoid being proud as it spoils chances of knowing the truth. Its a great show of wisdom when you humbly accept your shortcomings and correct them.
You also must make the necessary move of decision making without considering how painful it might be sometimes. You might be surprised when you realize that a close person like your spouse can easily put you under a spell. As they enjoy close proximity to you, they might collude with your foes to make life hard for you. At such point life becomes unbearable. Make the tough decision and set yourself free.
You might think you are so smart that a spell cannot affect you. Wait until you are caught and you will realize that you should have moved earlier. You have to watch out always. Examine your situations and see to it that they are no manipulative. Be firm in your decisions.
Relationships have a soft spot for spells. Control of affairs is always totally taken by one of the spouse. A third party is at times involved in terms of consultations. Such a lover makes you extremely dependent on them such that without them you fell totally void. They end up being your key decision makers on serious life issues. This is a spell in its best sense.
Being in a position to dominate the thoughts and actions of someone is an overwhelming experience. Some people can do everything to gain this control. This is normally not realized by the misused party, making them more helpless and vulnerable. People who try to bring the back to reality are labeled haters. It is normally too late when they realize that they were actually duped.
A great scholar called Socrates used to tell the Athenian youths that you should know thyself. This is very important if at all you would like to strengthen your weaker areas and reinforce your strongholds. Accept your weak areas in order for a chance to strengthen them to be sought. Never tarry until its too late to make a change. Consider views from friends and foes alike. Instead of rubbishing them, put them in a weighing.
Sometimes we feel that we know ourselves so much that we do not give a damn about what anybody says. However, its quite regrettable that we fail to understand that it is the observer who can see where the problem is. The wisest move therefore, is for us to listen more than we speak. Once we have listened, we should put what we have heard to deep contemplation before giving a decisive response.
For you to break a particular spell, always be willing to hear others out. Do not be the only one speaking. Instead, you better be the only one listening. There are cases where one has to persevere being ashamed for the sake of sobriety. Avoid being proud as it spoils chances of knowing the truth. Its a great show of wisdom when you humbly accept your shortcomings and correct them.
You also must make the necessary move of decision making without considering how painful it might be sometimes. You might be surprised when you realize that a close person like your spouse can easily put you under a spell. As they enjoy close proximity to you, they might collude with your foes to make life hard for you. At such point life becomes unbearable. Make the tough decision and set yourself free.
You might think you are so smart that a spell cannot affect you. Wait until you are caught and you will realize that you should have moved earlier. You have to watch out always. Examine your situations and see to it that they are no manipulative. Be firm in your decisions.
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