Wednesday, May 23, 2018

Methods Of Conversing With Your Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


Sometimes, we take for granted our ability to do normal things like speaking, hearing or seeing or even touching. Some people live very difficult lives and have to find ways of passing messages. Luckily, for people who do not hear, they can be taught how to communicate in sign language. However, there are other ways if a person did not always have this problem. Below are some of the effective methods to communicate to your husband hard of hearing.

Get the attention of the person before you begin to speak. For a person with hearing problems, it takes a lot of concentrating in order to follow a conversation. Therefore, tap them to show them that you want to talk to them and that way, they will not have a difficult time trying to understand what you will be talking about.

Make sure that they are able to see your mouth. They fill in what they cannot hear by reading your lips. To make it easier for them, avoid covering your mouth while talking. Ensure you are in a well-lit place so that they can make out whatever it is you are saying. You should also avoid chewing a moving around as you speak.

Enunciate as much as you can and maintain a steady pace of talking. Enunciating makes it clearer to hear whatever is being said. The steady pace of speech gives the person a chance to read your lips and understand you. If you speak too fast they may not at all understand what you are saying while speaking too slow makes lip reading harder.

Pick a quiet place. As mentioned before, hearing aids magnify the noise rather than clearing it up. So if you are going out go to one of the quiet and peaceful restaurants, or pick a corner booth with good lighting. At home, you should try to minimize the noise like turning down the AC and putting off the music when you speak.

Many are times while groups of friend decide to spend time together. In such a case, be mindful of the person who has difficulty hearing. Make sure that you are in a well light place and the person can hear whatever it is you are saying. Make sure you take turns in speaking otherwise it will be quite hard for them to get what is being said.

You should be ready to repeat and or rephrase what you say. The person may not hear what you say on the first few tries but you should not tire of repeating whatever you are trying to say. If repeating does not work, try rephrasing the comment or question. Other words may be easier for the person to hear. You can also try spelling out the hard to hear the word.

Do not treat the person as if they were so delicate. The same way you would find humor when a normal person misunderstands, you should do the same. At the end of the day, it will be a lot of fun and they will be more comfortable speaking to you.




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